In order to grow one must see the emotions that were once so big find a place to reside regaining stability, and expand ones growth inside. There isn't any room for growth when the experience constantly controls the mind and body. Time is required to comprehend unfathomed events and it may feel for awhile there is no place for this to ever reside.
However, the mind and body comes to see we are designed to make room for these emotions and thoughts to fit inside and enhance who you will be.
Overwhelming experiences provide forms of lessons and when answers can't be found.... the lesson can still securely reside positively fitting inside.
Circumstances that appear to have useless sense is where emotional growth actually takes place, regardless of it making logical sense. It's a matter of ones nature if it allows this growth to forwardly unfold to progress in the future or be defined peaking only to this point of ones personal mold.
To comprehend circumstances of emotional change, keep in mind the lesson can securely reside without having a label with a logical name. Answers produce names and labels, but sometime in life one may have to comprehend that the residing label is something Mystical.
Accepting is difficult to contemplate when emotions expand beyond what normally fits within the mind and body, but when it is achieved a new level of growth enhances ones personal mold, and it is then a new you can happily take form and begin to unfold.